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We moved from California to Utah in 2014, just before our oldest entered elementary school. We chose to move to Utah for two reasons. First, we wanted to provide our children with the best opportunities for an excellent education. Second, we wanted to avoid a move in their most formative years, so we looked for an educational community that we felt would meet their needs through their entire educational experience.
My cousin teaches in Utah’s Dual Language Immersion (DLI) program. She believes enrolling children in a DLI program is a fairly easy step a parent can take that will pay dividends throughout a child’s life. She cited a number of reasons we should enroll our children in a DLI school. She told us children naturally learn languages more easily when they are young, and the constant game of charades teachers have to play to communicate in the classroom is really beneficial because learners are receiving both audible and visual queues, which is much more engaging and effective. Our conversations sparked my interest, so we started our home search by visiting the Chinese immersion schools in Utah County. After our visit to Cascade Elementary, we decided it was the best fit for our family. We even purchased a house within viewing distance of the school.
Over time I became so involved in my career that even when I was home I was not very present, or involved in our childrens’ education. This all changed when I was asked to be a “Watch DOG” by my first grader. The Watch DOGS program seeks to involve fathers by encouraging them to help out at the school one day during the school year. My child’s teacher, Mr. Abbott, asked me to sit in the hall and help students who were struggling with math. I spent a short five minutes with each student. It was simple, but I saw first hand how helping with the little things can make a difference – for teachers and students alike. Our teachers have an enormous challenge educating so many children at once, all while managing classroom logistics and minutiae. After this experience, I became more involved in my children’s education.
Years later, a friend with an award-winning business start-up was struggling to identify his target customers. In order to overcome this problem, we began reaching out to anyone who had used his platform. During our phone interviews we would ask who else they believed could benefit from using the platform. Frequently we would hear that Parent Teacher Associations (PTAs) would love it. We learned that the next week was the Utah PTA Leadership Convention. We were able to set up a booth at that convention, and signed numerous PTA units. In my free time, I was given permission to attend some of the classes. In doing so, I learned of the many challenges PTAs face and I committed to serve if the chance arose.
A few weeks later, I volunteered when Nalani Young, our PTA President at Cascade Elementary, sent out an email looking for a PTA Treasurer. Someone else volunteered just before I did, so I served the following year as PTA Treasurer with Aimee Monson as our PTA President. The following year, I became PTA treasurer.
As treasurer, I was responsible for managing funds. However, I was also able to find a way to reduce some of our fixed costs. For example, instead of using the State PTA’s preferred insurance provider, I moved to another provider which reduced our cost by half but still provided the same benefits. I shared this information with our PTA Council and most of those schools followed suit.
Another improvement came as Cascade was coming out of COVID, we could see our teachers were in need of additional support. I recommended we allocate a significant portion of our PTA budget to help teachers with supplies they needed. The PTA Executive Committee agreed. To request supplies from the PTA a teacher simply submitted a half-page form telling us what they needed and how it would benefit their classroom. It was a simple set of creative solutions that helped teachers feel our love and support. And they were thrilled to receive packages delivered daily to the school office.
The next year, I served again as Treasurer, but this time with Rachel Hall and Karen Clarke as the Presidents. During this year our prior PTA President, Aimee Monson, suggested we do our Teacher Grants through DonorsChoose, a website that allows businesses and individuals to match contributions made by parents for supplies teachers request. I quickly adopted the idea and figured out how to get alerts whenever there were 3x matches. I also figured out how to opt out of the default platform fees DonorsChoose charges. In addition, I asked our Principal and PTA to agree that rather than splitting the very small amount of money we were getting from AmazonSmile and from Smith’s cashback evenly between the PTA and the school, I wanted all the AmazonSmile money (which at the time was less than Smith’s) to come to the PTA, and the school could have the Smith’s funds. I also received a commitment from the PTA that we would only use AmazonSmile funds for Teacher Grants.
During my required seven minute presentation to the school to review the budget, I took 90 seconds and guided the parents step-by-step to sign up for AmazonSmile. Funds started rolling in. Despite a 40% reduction in fund from the PTA, because of AmazonSmile and DonorsChoose matches, we were able to nearly triple the impact for teachers! I love finding creative solutions to complex problems. It is especially fun when the solution benefits teachers and students. So often decisions don’t have to be linear if we work together and think outside the box.
I love finding solutions when others don’t see a way. For example, I called PayPal to get card readers for collecting payments at the Cougar Crawl. I asked if there might be a way to avoid paying $80 per card reader because we were officially a 501(c)(3). When they looked into it, they said we could get three free card readers if we showed proof of our nonprofit status. Then, we had conversations about other benefits we could access. We set up a PayPal Giving Fund account to receive donations, including by credit card, without paying credit card processing fees—this saved us $400 per year. I also learned we could accept Venmo payments through the Zettle card readers, and the Venmo payments would be processed through our PayPal business account. I knew that Utah PTA had banned the use of Venmo, but I understood the reason for the ban was that there wasn’t a compliant way for PTAs to have a business or personal Venmo account. So, I began accepting Venmo payments with our card readers through our PTA’s PayPal account because we were complying with both the spirit and the letter of the Utah PTA guidelines.
At the end of my two years as Treasurer, I contacted Utah PTA and was asked to email information about the improvements we made to the State PTA Treasurer. On July 14, 2022, PTA Leadership responded to my email, stating that reviewing what I sent them about our process for accepting Venmo was “at the top of [their] list to verify the process and to make sure that it fit within the scope of [their] policies and procedures.” Since I was no longer Treasurer and didn’t receive further communication, I assumed they had updated the PTA Handbook after verifying the process.
A little over three years later, as I began running for School Board, I decided to look at the Treasurer’s Handbook to see the changes that had been made. To my dismay, they still had a “No Venmo” policy. So, I reached out again to the State Treasurer on July 4, 2025, by email, and on July 16, I received confirmation that, as long as we didn’t open a Venmo account (which we didn’t), we were in compliance with Utah PTA’s “No Venmo” policy.
I hope that Utah PTA Leadership will take the time to review this process, since they said over three years ago that it was at the top of their list! In the meantime, if you’re in a PTA and are interested, you can follow my lead and accept Venmo payments, while being fully compliant, by using a PayPal account and a Zettle (now called "PayPal POS") credit card reader that you can get for free.
After serving for two years as the PTA Treasurer and receiving the Outstanding Volunteer Award, I was asked if I would be the PTA President, but I felt like it was time to let others serve in that capacity, so I oversaw the nominating committee to recruit a new president.
The more active I became in our children’s education, the more I began to realize how each of our children had their own strengths and challenges. I also saw that education shouldn’t be a one size fits all solution. For example, our first grader was told by an older sibling something that was interpreted as if they got to the twelfth level of the online learning app Lexia, then they could skip to the 12th grade. This child did hours of Lexia every evening. By third grade the teacher reset my child back to the 1st level of Lexia because she said it was impossible to be at the 20th level. Our child went through all the levels again. As you can imagine, this child became very bored in school. For the next three years we would learn at parent-teacher conferences that teachers loved our child in their classroom. This child would help the teacher by assisting other students who were struggling. While teaching is such an amazing way to reinforce learning, helping other students for three years without learning much of anything new was detrimental. We needed something more for this child.
Another child struggles with executive functioning. At parent-teacher conference we heard that this child would creatively distract the other students and wouldn’t stop until the principal was called. Our child struggled to sit still in class and was growing a complex of feeling stupid, even though this child has great intellectual gifts. After doing an amazing STEM Fair project and winning first place at the district and state level, our child’s self-perception began to change. However, we still struggled with so many other things. For example, math was challenging because teachers required that all answers be submitted through Canvas, and the answer for each math problem had four dropdown style answers. If students mess up any one of these, the computer doesn't help them learn, it just tells them they are wrong, which makes them feel dumb without helping them learn. Math took three to four times as long as it should, and forced our child to solve a math problem one way–the teacher's way.
These challenges, and more, forced us to make some difficult decisions and critically examine each child’s way of learning and the education he or she was receiving. Over the course of a couple years, we moved three of our five children to a private school–each for different reasons. We feel like it’s been the best solution, but not without its drawbacks.
Here are the benefits we’ve seen for our kids in private school:
- The school doesn’t promote technology unless it significantly enhances student learning.
- Smaller class sizes results in teachers spending more time on each student's individual development.
- Teachers are trusted to build excellent curriculum and are often asked what they want to teach, which results in inspirational teaching for both the teacher and the student.
- Students participate in evaluating new teachers before they are hired by doing a mock lesson and offering real feedback. Students feel trusted and engaged.
- Teachers view their job as assisting parents in their role to educate their children. It’s incredible the amount of input the school accepts from parents.
- The lack of cell phones inside the classroom means students are more focused on learning and aren’t subject to peer pressure and distractions in class. They’re able to be present.
- Uniforms allow students to be judged for their character rather than by the clothes they wear. This has been a huge advantage for one of our children.
The private school knows very well that each year they may lose their students. They care immensely about creating a great experience so their "customers" will return.
Here are just a few of the things we miss and loved at the public schools:
- Some of teachers at the public schools were the most incredible teachers we've ever had, and our kids miss them a lot. We ought to honor and reward the most incredible teachers!
- Public schools are already paid for with tax money so they are essentially free to attend.
- We love having community schools close to our home. No school commute and having their friends living nearby are really big.
- Opportunities to participate in team sports are often better at public schools. It’s taken us time and effort to navigate this at the private school.
- Language Immersion - this has been really challenging because we moved to Utah to a large degree to do Chinese Immersion. We would love for our kids to continue at least until they take the AP Chinese Exam.
The decision to stay in public school or to move to private school has been difficult for each of our children and has weighed heavily on my wife and me. Public schools need to give parents and students reasons to stay–currently they act too much like a monopoly (not held accountable for poor results/low satisfaction). I believe public schools can outcompete private schools, charter schools and homeschool. However, we need to take steps to do so, especially considering the addition of the Utah Fits All Scholarship. Let’s give parents and students more reasons to choose their local public school!
So, what can we improve upon or change to make the decision easier for families to choose our public schools? I have listed a few of those ideas on my platform. Ultimately, we are taking a huge step forward with the division of Alpine School District, allowing for more local control. However, we need to be deliberate in taking the best of what we currently have from ASD, and introduce improvements that benefit our students and teachers. We need purposeful ideas, policies and direction that will encourage the love of learning, challenge them to succeed beyond the classroom, and improve our world by looking outside themselves. Let’s do our best for the good of our children and our community, so families will want to move to Orem, Lindon, Pleasant Grove and Vineyard. Let’s make our school district the place families want to be, because our schools are the optimal places of learning and assist students in becoming their best versions of themselves!